

Marriage Intensive
This couples intensive is a highly personalized, trauma-informed therapeutic experience rooted in a Christian understanding of marriage as a covenant marked by grace and commitment to God. Each couple completes a comprehensive assessment and receives an individualized treatment plan, along with focused counseling, small-group support, and a follow-up session. With three therapists present throughout the intensive, couples receive deep, individualized care while also learning alongside others in a safe and supportive environment. The extended format allows for meaningful healing of attachment wounds, relational trauma, and communication breakdowns beyond what traditional weekly counseling or seminars can offer.
Christian Marriage Counseling & Intensive Retreats in Virginia Beach and Coastal Virginia
At Rapha Counseling Services, we provide Christ-centered marriage counseling and intensive marriage retreats for couples seeking healing, restoration, and renewed connection. Serving Virginia Beach, Portsmouth, Norfolk, Chesapeake, and the greater Hampton Roads area, our work is grounded in biblical truth, professional counseling practices, and a deep respect for the sacred covenant of marriage.
We believe that marriage restoration is possible — not through striving alone, but through intentional work, emotional safety, and inviting God into the healing process.
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
— Psalm 147:3
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What Is a Christian Marriage Intensive Retreat?
A Christian marriage intensive retreat is a focused counseling experience where couples engage in extended, uninterrupted sessions over one or more days. Unlike weekly counseling, intensives allow couples to slow down, step away from daily distractions, and fully attend to one another — emotionally, relationally, and spiritually.
At Rapha Counseling Services, our intensives are designed to help couples:
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Rebuild emotional connection and friendship
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Restore trust and safety
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Learn healthier ways to communicate and resolve conflict
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Strengthen unity through Christ
“Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”
— Ecclesiastes 4:12
Our Christ-Centered Counseling Approach
Rapha Counseling Services offers faith-based marriage counseling that integrates:
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Biblical wisdom and Scripture
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Prayer and spiritual reflection
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Clinically sound counseling techniques
We honor both the emotional realities couples face and God’s design for marriage. Our counselors walk alongside couples with humility, discernment, and care. helping partners learn how to listen, respond, and reconnect with compassion.
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”
— 1 Peter 4:8
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How Marriage Intensives Differ from Weekly Counseling
While traditional marriage counseling can be helpful, many couples find that meaningful change requires more time and continuity than weekly sessions allow. Marriage intensives provide:
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Sustained focus without repeated “starting over”
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Space to understand long-standing patterns of conflict
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Opportunities to practice turning toward one another with empathy and grace
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A structured yet compassionate environment that promotes emotional safety
This format often allows couples to experience breakthroughs that might otherwise take months of weekly therapy.
Our Christ-Centered Counseling Approach
Rapha Counseling Services offers faith-based marriage counseling that integrates:
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Biblical wisdom and Scripture
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Prayer and spiritual reflection
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Clinically sound counseling techniques
We honor both the emotional realities couples face and God’s design for marriage. Our counselors walk alongside couples with humility, discernment, and care — helping partners learn how to listen, respond, and reconnect with compassion.
“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”
— 1 Peter 4:8
Who Can Benefit from a Marriage Intensive?
Christian marriage intensives are especially helpful for couples who:
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Feel emotionally disconnected or distant
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Experience recurring conflict or communication breakdowns
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Are navigating trust injuries or betrayal
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Feel stuck and unsure how to move forward
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Desire a Christ-centered path toward healing and renewal
Couples do not need to be in crisis to attend. Many seek intensives proactively to strengthen their relationship and deepen their spiritual and emotional bond.
“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.”
— Hebrews 10:24
What to Expect During a Marriage Intensive Retreat
During your intensive experience, you and your spouse will:
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Participate in structured counseling sessions
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Identify patterns that create distance or misunderstanding
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Learn tools that foster clarity, empathy, and calm communication
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Engage in reflection, prayer, and guided discussion
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Build habits that support long-term emotional connection
Our goal is not perfection, but restoration, humility, and hope.
Pricing for Marriage Counseling & Intensives
How much does a marriage intensive cost?
Because each couple’s needs are unique, pricing is discussed during your confidential consultation. Marriage intensives are typically structured as a one-time investment rather than ongoing weekly sessions and are often more cost-effective in the long run.
Comparable marriage intensives generally range from:
$1,500 to $5,100, depending on length, format, and clinician involvement
We are committed to transparent pricing and will clearly explain costs before scheduling.
Insurance & Superbill Information
Do you accept insurance?
Rapha Counseling Services is an out-of-network provider. We do not bill insurance directly and do not participate in Medicare, Military OneSource, VA benefits, or HMO plans.
What is a Superbill?
We provide clients with a Superbill, which is a detailed receipt that includes:
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Provider credentials
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Session dates
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Service and diagnostic codes​
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You may submit this Superbill to your insurance company for possible out-of-network reimbursement.
Will insurance reimburse marriage counseling?
Reimbursement varies by plan. Some insurance providers may reimburse partially or fully when counseling is tied to a diagnosable mental health condition. We recommend contacting your insurance company directly to ask:
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Whether out-of-network counseling is covered
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What your deductible and reimbursement rate are
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Any documentation requirements
Please note that reimbursement is not guaranteed and is determined by your insurer.

Why Couples Choose Marriage Intensives
Many couples find intensives beneficial because they:
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Eliminate weeks of delayed progress
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Provide concentrated time for healing and connection
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Reduce ongoing emotional strain
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Help couples re-establish trust and friendship more quickly
For many, a single intensive weekend creates momentum that supports long-term growth.

How to Get Started
The first step is a confidential consultation. During this conversation, we will:
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Listen to your story
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Assess your needs and goals
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Determine whether an intensive or ongoing counseling is the best fit
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“Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain.”
— Psalm 127:1
Your marriage matters. Healing is possible. Restoration is worth pursuing.